Why Do We Fall in Love
Most of us remember that incredibly blissful feeling of being "in love" at least once in our lives.
You couldn't breathe, you couldn't concentrate and all you wanted to do was to be with your beloved, basking in that delicious magnetic pull toward each other. You couldn't get enough of one another. You felt like it was "right" and you were "home."
Now we know that it's not realistic (or even desirable) to go through life like this--feeling so ungrounded, scattered and unfocused all the time that you can't get much done.
What happens for most couples is...
For some mysterious reason in the process of "settling down", we lose all or most of this excitement and powerful
feelings of love and attraction we felt for one another.
feelings of love and attraction we felt for one another.
We settle into comfort and routine and those intense feelings get so watered down that we have trouble finding them.
Most of the people who begin to question whether they want to be in the relationship they're in or not (and the ones who are living with the question of whether to stay or go tell us that what happened for them is what happened for many couples...
Somewhere along the line they lost the passion, spark and desire that they once had. It all sort of faded away and they ended up wondering "what just happened?"
We've discovered that it doesn't have to be this way...
While you probably don't want those exact feelings you had when you were first in love (we don't), but what you may want is a more seasoned hybrid of it. In other words, you may want a little more spark than what you have now without all the drama and intensity that's over the edge.
The good news is that you don't have to get divorced or go find a new partner to find it.
Here are 4 ways that we and other couples use to fall in love over and over again with each other...
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